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Prayer: Interview Two
by Darcy West

reprinted by permission


Darcy West: Do Christians believe in "answered prayer"?

Fred: Yes, Darcy.

Darcy West: Fred, do you believe that God's actions/decisions can be affected by the prayers of humans?

Fred: ABSOLUTELY! That's why we pray.

Darcy West: Fred, if you fail to pray, will God's will be carried out anyway?

Fred: Yes, because He will have someone else pray.

Darcy West: God would fail to carry out his will because a human failed to pray?

Fred: No. God's will will be done no matter what He will use who ever He wants

Darcy West: Fred, if God's will will be done no matter what, then prayers do not bring about a change in God's actions/decisions. Thus, there really is no such thing as answered prayer---if what is going to happen will happen whether you pray or not, yes?

Fred: Yes, you can change God's hearts with your prayers. I have personal experience of it.

Darcy West: So you believe prayers can sometimes cause God to change his plan and to do something he wasn't going to otherwise?

Fred: No - If you don't pray for it God will use someone

Darcy West: Fred, is God omniscient? i.e. knows all things?

Fred: Yes.

Darcy West: And if God knows all things, can he experience uncertainty?

Fred: No.

Darcy West: How can a God who experiences no uncertainty change his mind?

Fred: God is never uncertain, but because of what you feel in your heart for a particular person or situation and because of God's great love for you he can change his mind.

Darcy West: If God is never uncertain, he never changes his mind, right? Because in order to change one's mind, one must have had limited knowledge or uncertainty.

Fred: God can change his mind.

Darcy West: What causes someone to change his mind?

Fred: What causes you to change your mind? Say your child wants to go spend the night with a friend and you say no. The child travails before you and begs and begs and begs and because of your love for that child you change your mind and say ok

Darcy West: If I am omniscient, I knew before the child begged that he was going to, didn't I?

Fred: Yes.

Darcy West: And if I am omniscient, I also knew that I was going to let him go. Right?

Fred: Yes.

Darcy West: So I did not change my mind. I knew all along what I was going to do, right?

Fred: You were waiting.

Darcy West: Waiting for what, Fred? Waiting to see what the child would do?

Fred: Waiting to see how much it meant to the child.

Darcy West: If I am omniscient, I already know how much it means to him, don't I?

Fred: Yep, but you want your child to show his faith in you believing that you will do it and acknowledging you in all things.

Darcy West: Okay. But in this case, it's not a matter of me changing my mind though, is it? It's a matter of me already knowing what I am going to do but simply wanting my child to beg me anyway. I want the child to beg me because it pleases me to see him beg.

Fred: You can change God's mind. I've experienced it.

Darcy West: Fred, can you give me an example of how an omniscient God can change his mind?

Fred: Ok - listen I am a holy ghost filled, speaking in tongues christian

Darcy West: Okay.

Fred: My marriage fell apart, my 20 year old son left and I was lonely. I thought my world was ending.

Darcy West: I'm sorry, Fred.

Fred: I couldn't pray, didn't want to pray. But God wanted me to come up in Him and I didn't want to. I was upset and my best friend called me and was telling me that I knew better and not to let the enemy deceive me and I didn't want to listen. I was determined not to pray anymore And God told my two best friends that are saved that I would bust hell wide open .

Darcy West: Fred....so when he told your friends that you were going to bust hell wide open if they didn't pray---he knew all along that you weren't really going to do that, right?

Fred: God had them pray for me so that my heart and mind would be touched and I would get back to being a soldier for the Lord.

Darcy West: Fred, did he know all along that you were going to return to being a soldier for him?

Fred: He knew how to get me going. Because no matter what - I was NOT going to hell for anyone.

Darcy West: But did he know all along what was going to happen, since he is all-knowing?

Fred: Yes.

Darcy West: Then he lied to you and your friends?

Fred: No.

Darcy West: Fred, if what you say is true, God lied to your friends in order to manipulate them into doing something that gave him pleasure. He told them you were going to bust hell wide open---and you said he knew that wasn't true.

Fred: No, he told them what I needed to hear.

Darcy West: Fred, if he told them you were going to bust hell wide open when he knew that wasn't true, how is that not a lie?

Fred: He touched their hearts and minds to pray for me.

Darcy West: Fred, you said he told them that you were going to bust hell wide open, right?

Fred: That's right and that upset them because of their love for me.

Darcy West: Fred, but how can God lie?

Fred: Darcy - He did not lie.

Darcy West: Fred, lying is saying something you know is not true. You said that God knew you weren't going to bust hell wide open, but he told them that you were.

Fred: I would have busted hell wide open but because of their prayer God had mercy. God cannot lie.

Darcy West: So now you are saying that for awhile, God thought you MIGHT bust hell wide open but then when your friends prayed, he decided to have mercy on you and change your heart so that you would not go to hell?

Fred: I hear what you're saying And you're trying to put God in a pinhole.

Darcy West: He couldn't have mercy on you without their prayers?

Fred: Someone's got to pray

Darcy West: Why?

Fred: To show faith in God and know that He can do all things

Darcy West: So if they had failed to pray for you...would God have failed to have turned you back into a soldier of God?

Fred: But what you are failing to realize is God put me on people's hearts that He Knew would pray.

Darcy West: If God had told them to pray and they failed, what would he have done then?

Fred: He would have found someone else to pray OR he would have given me dreams.

Darcy West: So if one thing didn't work, he could find another thing to do until finally he was able to get through to you?

Fred: He wasn't going to stop trying. God doesn't give up on people.

Darcy West: He does give up on people when he puts them in his eternal torture chamber though, doesn't he? If God knows all along what will work and what won't work, why not just start with the alternative that will work to begin with?

Fred: I don't think you want the answers Darcy.

Darcy West: Fred, I assure you. If there are answers to these questions, I'd really like to hear them. By the way, can you tell me how you hear God? What is the difference between hearing God's voice and hearing what your mind wants to believe is God's voice?

Fred: There are ways to know that, Darcy. But you aren't ready to hear them yet. I will pray for you.

Darcy West: Thank you, Fred.